Common Pitfalls in D/s (and How to Avoid Them)
Power exchange relationships can be profound, sensual, life-changing — and also incredibly complex.
Qualities of a Great Dominant (and How to Develop Them)
The Dominant role in BDSM is often misunderstood. Some imagine a Dominant as cold, harsh, always in...
Establishing a D/s Contract: Setting Rules and Boundaries
In Dominance and submission (D/s), the exchange of power is profound. It can also be emotional,...
Maintaining Healthy D/s Relationships: Communication & Respect
Starting a D/s relationship is exciting. Roles are explored, rituals are created, energy is high....
Top 10 Myths About Kink (Debunked)
Kink is more popular — and more misunderstood — than ever. From Fifty Shades to TikTok tutorials,...
Consent Violations — What to Do If Something Goes Wrong
Consent is the foundation of ethical kink. But what happens when that foundation cracks?
Long-Distance Kink: Maintaining D/s Intimacy When Apart
Tips for couples who are occasionally apart (traveling professionals or LDRs) to explore...
Emotional Safety and Aftercare: Caring for Feelings During Kink
Kink can be intense. Even when scenes are light or playful, the emotional layers — trust,...
Getting Started with Kink as a Couple – First Steps
You and your partner are curious about kink — but you’re not sure where to begin. Maybe you’ve read...
Trust and Bonding: The Intimacy Benefits of BDSM for Couples
At first glance, BDSM might seem like it’s all about control, sensation, or structure — but at its...