Top 10 Myths About Kink (Debunked)
Kink is more popular — and more misunderstood — than ever. From Fifty Shades to TikTok tutorials,...
Aftercare for Beginners: Why Every Scene Needs a Warm Down
You’ve just had an intense, emotional, or exhilarating BDSM experience. Maybe you explored...
Finding Your Comfort Zone: Soft, Medium, and Hard Limits
One of the most empowering things you can do as you begin exploring kink is get clear on your...
BDSM Myths
Common Myths and Misconceptions about BDSM
BDSM has often been misunderstood. Let’s clear up some...
Kink Lingo Glossary: 21 Terms Newbies Should Know
When you first step into the world of BDSM and kink, it can feel like you’ve entered a whole new...
BDSM Etiquette 101: Do’s and Don’ts for Newbies
Stepping into the world of kink can feel exciting — and a little intimidating. Whether you’re...
Beginner’s Guide to Safe Words and Signals
One of the most important tools in BDSM and kink play is also one of the simplest: the safe word....
Essential BDSM Gear for Beginners (and How to Improvise)
When you're just starting to explore kink, it's easy to think you need a fully stocked dungeon, a...
How to Talk to Your Partner About Trying BDSM
If you’re curious about kink but not sure how to bring it up with your partner — you’re not alone....