Aftercare for Beginners: Why Every Scene Needs a Warm Down
You’ve just had an intense, emotional, or exhilarating BDSM experience. Maybe you explored...
Why Serve a Pro Domme?
Why serve a Pro Domme?
Several of the gentlemen whom I play with are active in the kink lifestyle,...
Setting Goals as a Submissive: What Do You Want to Achieve
Whether you’re brand new to submission or you’ve been exploring D/s dynamics for years, one of the...
24/7 vs. Bedroom-Only D/s – Which Is Right for You?
D/s (Dominance and submission) comes in many shapes, but one of the most common questions people...
Finding Your Comfort Zone: Soft, Medium, and Hard Limits
One of the most empowering things you can do as you begin exploring kink is get clear on your...
BDSM Myths
Common Myths and Misconceptions about BDSM
BDSM has often been misunderstood. Let’s clear up some...
How to Negotiate a BDSM Scene (For Beginners and Beyond)
Whether you're planning your very first kink scene or stepping into your hundredth, one truth...
Physical Safety in BDSM: Tips to Avoid Injury
BDSM can be beautiful, intense, and transformational — but it also involves bodies, pressure,...
Introducing D/s into an Existing Relationship
Maybe you've been with your partner for years. Maybe your relationship is strong and loving, but...
The Controversy of Safe, Sane & Consensual (SSC)
If you’ve been around the BDSM community or read introductory kink guides, you’ve likely heard the...