Submissive Training
Princess Raven is located 30 min North of Boston.
For many people, engaging in submissive training is a deeply personal and transformative path. It’s not just about scenes or protocols — it’s about growth, intention, and connection.
Princess Raven is here to guide you — whether you're a curious beginner or a seasoned submissive ready to level up your experience. Submissive training, when done with care and consent, can help you:
- Deepen trust in yourself and others
- Discover fulfillment through structure and service
- Build discipline and confidence through learning how to set boundaries for yourself and those around you
Princess Raven has spent over a decade guiding submissives through ethical, empowering training — always rooted in consent, personal growth, and joyful exploration.
What Is Submissive Training, Really?
Submissive training is a structured, collaborative process of developing skills, mindset, and behaviors within a Dominance/submission (D/s) dynamic. It might involve:
- Learning physical positions (kneeling, presenting, posture)
- Practicing etiquette and rituals (greetings, titles, protocols)
- Following assignments or routines
- Reflecting on desires, fears, and boundaries
- Somatic grounding through mindful sensory exploration
It’s not about "obedience for obedience’s sake" — it’s about building emotional and psychological muscles: trust, healthy boundaries, and giving yourself permission to make room in your life for what brings you happiness and fulfillment, even if it feels a little outside-the-box.
Read: What Is Submissive Training? A Beginner’s Guide to Structured Kink Learning
Serving Princess Raven: FAQs and Boundaries
- Princess is not a sex worker and does not offer any illegal services such as hand jobs. Really really. Not "just saying it."
- Princess answers texts 1p-9p M-F, unless She's in a session, busy texting someone else, etc. Do not freak out at 8a or on weekends wondering why She's not text you back. She will never ghost you, and will respond within 24 hrs.
- Princess is not looking to date you. You can be friends, but no dating. Friendship typically only occurs if you've been serving Her every week for a very long time.
- No texting play unless it's a scheduled, long-distance session.
- No chit-chat outside of sessions unless it is to discuss an upcoming session. Princess is here for D/s dynamics, not to be your pal.
- Collars are earned after 10 sessions. Collars are a symbol of your submission and devotion, and are NOT an escalation of the dynamic (aka Princess's boundaries do not change)
If you cannot respect these boundaries, then you are not fit to serve Princess. Go find someone else who you are more compatible to serve.
Setting Intentions: What Do You Want to Learn or Become?
Good training begins with clarity. Ask yourself:
- Why are you drawn to submission?
- What parts of yourself do you want to develop?
- What excites you? What scares you?
Setting goals helps you stay grounded in your journey, whether it’s:
- Improving your ability to communicate vulnerably
- Deepening your understanding of service
- Reaching a specific submissive mindset (e.g., surrender, presence, devotion)
Princess Raven offers one-on-one coaching sessions that help you set personalized, realistic goals that match your desires, limits, and lifestyle.
Read: Setting Goals as a Submissive — What Do You Want to Achieve?
From Fantasy to Reality: What to Expect in a Session
If you’re seeking training from a professional Dominant or kink coach, here’s how to prepare:
- Clarify your interests, goals, and soft/hard limits
- Understand that coaching is educational and consensual, and it is NOT sexual services
- Be ready to ask questions, take notes, and reflect afterward
Princess Raven offers structured, educational sessions where you can:
- Experience and understand your kinks
- Receive personalized assignments and practices
- Explore the practice of submission and surrender
- Grounding and relaxation through sensory exploration (not sexual exploration. A Professional Dominant is not a prostitute).
- Build confidence in safe, non-judgmental space
- Princess Raven has been a Pro Domme for over 10 years, and enjoys working with submissives of all experience levels. Whether you're taking your first steps on your personal kink journey, or looking to take it to the next level, Princess Raven has the expertise and creativity to guide you!
Start Here: From Fantasy to Reality — Preparing for Your First Session with a Pro Domme
Challenges Along the Path (And How to Move Through Them)
Submission often brings up big feelings — and that’s okay. You might feel:
- Shame for wanting to serve
- Guilt for craving structure
- Imposter syndrome (“am I doing it right?”)
- Frustration at inconsistency
These emotional blocks are natural. Coaching, community, and inner kindness are powerful tools for working through them.
Read: Overcoming Challenges in Submission — Fear, Guilt, and Perfectionism
Ready to Step Into Your Growth?
Submissive training isn’t about being told what to do. It’s about discovering what you want to become — and learning how to get there, ethically, safely, and proudly.
No two submissives are the same. Your journey is valid whether it’s slow and quiet, intense and rigorous, or full of joyful service.
Training is a tool — not to mold you into someone else’s fantasy, but to help you embody your own.
Return to this page any time you need encouragement, structure, or inspiration. And remember: you’re not alone.
Princess Raven offers:
- Personalized submissive coaching and mentorship
- In-person or virtual sessions
- Structured plans, tasks, and reflections to guide your growth